I had lunch with Terri Swingle today and she suggested publishing another Tony Robins article on the back of the newsletter to give a little break from the poems. So here is what I found.
Gratitude is a mindset and a state of being, but it’s also a set of actions. There are strategies you can use each day to ensure that you continue to live in gratitude.
1. CHOOSE GRATITUDE
Emotions are a gift that make us human and can drive us to achieve great things. The power of gratitude is that it is an emotion – and you can control your emotions by choosing what to focus on. You can choose to approach life from a place of scarcity and fear, or you can adopt an attitude of abundance and decide to focus on the positive. The choice is yours, and it’s the first decision you must make before you can learn how to live in gratitude.
2. PRACTICE PRIMING
Tony tells us that “It’s not what we do once in a while that shapes our lives, but what we do consistently.” Starting your morning strong is essential, and priming is a way to set your focus. Priming is an extension of the idea that starting your day with negative emotions will lead to negative experiences, while positive emotions will lead to positive experiences. Tony’s priming exercise uses elements of visualization, meditation and incantations to help you begin each day with the power of gratitude on your side.
3. CULTIVATE MINDFULNESS
One benefit of priming is that it cultivates mindfulness. Mindfulness is the ability to live in the present, connecting with your thoughts and emotions without judging them, changing them or letting them overtake you. It means cultivating the ability to focus your attention on the sights, smells and sounds around you, listen deeply, connect with others and awaken to the gifts of life. You can cultivate mindfulness through meditation, stretching and other practices that pause racing thoughts and let in the power of gratitude.
4. LET GO OF THE PAST
Sometimes what we didn’t have in the past can prevent us from accepting it in the present. If we never had a healthy relationship, we may push away a loving partner. If we were raised to be perfectionists, it’s difficult to appreciate things that aren’t “just right.” That’s why you must let go of the past in order to learn how to live in gratitude each day. Choosing to give a positive meaning to your past experiences will help you overcome limiting beliefs and know that you are worthy of abundance.
5. TAKE ACTION
You now have powerful strategies for how to live in gratitude. But as Tony says, “Knowing is not enough. You must take action.” Don’t put off gratitude for another day. Tell someone how much you appreciate them and why. Start a gratitude journal. And don’t brush off the compliments of others. Accepting others’ appreciation of you is just as important to embrace the power of gratitude as giving appreciation.
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For Your Consideration,